Relationship stress can be caused by a number of issues of money, children, careers, laws, neighbors or the weather. Yes, weather. However, in reality, none of these things really cause relationship stress. What are the causes of stress due to these issues is not about money, but attitudes about your money or your willingness to discuss it in a non-judgmental or in neutral and not let your ego take over. So it is not really money or lack of what the guilty, but how you speak. If your comments are riddled with fault, invalidation, critics - what - I can assure you money relationship challenges.
Children are not a cause of stress relationship, or your reaction to your expectations on how children should behave, how they feel, what they should or should not do so is what cause you stress. Then, if you do not have a method of release or handling of such stress, I guarantee you bring the stress in all discussions with your partner about how children are driving you nuts.
How about your career or employment. Jobs are not stressful. They are jobs. What makes their stress is how we handle the demands of them. Whether we routine flows to these challenges, tasks or problems or we fight them every step of the process. We defensive and intolerance of the customer, colleague or boss of attitudes, expectations or relationship style or we accept the way it is.
