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The Game of Seduction
By: Joe M. Burchett, Thu Feb 11th, 2010
Some alluring or seductive behave as such to provoke jealousy in their partners. One reason is that the flirtation, and jealousy that provokes, can maintain the strength of sexual feelings in a relationship. Jealousy can be a powerful aphrodisiac. Flirting can cause a nasty scene in public, which then compensates privately in bed. With this behavior are revived dormant sexual feelings and re-ignite a relationship. Another reason to provoke jealousy with flirting is that one believes that the couple does not deserve to have, perhaps because they feel sexy.
Seductive Men
Show romanization Paradoxically, this uncertainty makes it more brazenly flirt. All flirt from time to time, especially when we meet a very attractive person and want to express sexual interest. It can be a pleasant and friendly to communicate verbally. However, some people do not merely flirt with someone to whom he is attracted. Flirt indiscriminately, as part of his personality, which can be disruptive or destructive to others. No single type of compulsive flirtation. The only thing they all have in common is a desire (sometimes unconscious) power, whether sexual, social or professional. We could establish a typology of flirting with the following divisions.
THE STALLION
It is easy to locate at any social gathering. The dress may vary, but their swaggering air of self-sufficiency, is overwhelming. He is convinced that many women are curious about men with high self-concept. The stallion does not require revealing or tight clothes to show their objective, but should look chuffed physically and mentally. He can spend hours in the gym to get fit or wear modern clothing but haphazardly, hoping to impress women. The skills are refined stallion. Its performance depends heavily on the smile, the game looks and that today is always ready and always carries in his pocket pair is used furtively penegra (Silagra) after a prolonged scrutiny of the woman facing him is . The sexual conquest is always a strong motivating impulse for the stallion.
THE VAMPIRESA
In this type belong most women who flirt. You can recognize at the time it appears. Her clothes are always striking. Maybe I'm old fashioned and is not tasteful, but fulfills the role she wants: make an impression. Usually a shiny fabric with a tight-fitting clothing that enhances her figure, her clothes announced their intentions, even before he speaks, she is ready to conquer all. In the vampire she loves the holidays, especially if she is the center of attention. Feeling that the festival has been a failure if you have not gotten all the men run after her and that all women hate. When flirting, not so much what she says but the way he says. His body language is very powerful and unmistakable message conveyed. All men attract your attention and it is very difficult to discern whether what he says and actually does respond to a conscious behavior.
THE SEDUCTIVE
The seducer can be male or female. It is a subspecies of vampire or stallion, and that usually operates in a similar way, but rarely reaches the end. However, their targets are provided with the pleasant feeling that they have made a conquest, and that if they have come to enjoy its fruits have been simply because circumstances have prevented it.
The flatterer
This type of flirting can be male or female, although women are often better at this than men. Flattery was not immediately identified, but men often use as little subtle techniques that are sometimes outrageous. The sycophants seek social recognition that sexual. Its aim is not to leave where they are until you get the whole world admires. And flooding victims get a warm glow of satisfaction. The flatterers employ a very subtle technique, keeping the conversation on general topics to find the weak point of the other person. The fawning male knows that if you tell an ugly woman who is beautiful, she does not think he is lying, but has good taste. Similarly, if the flattering man tells him that his comments are more intelligent than has ever heard, she's never disagree with her.
THE LOST
The lost goes to the bar and men with a false air of innocence, a kind of naive eroticism very different from the deliberate and studied the vamps and stallions. The lost can wear a dress that is continuously slipping shoulder. But it can also appear uncertain and bewildered, falling back on itself and blushing in a way that does not go unnoticed. His technique of flirting can be quite quiet. She sticks her big eyes on the prize and listen with rapt air. Do not keep looking, but will lower his eyes, then looked coyly back, seeming to feel strongly impressed by the man she is talking.
THE MANIPULATOR
The manipulators are flirting the professional field. The majority are women, although men also tend to employ this technique. Unlike other compulsive flirt, seeking sexual and social power, the manipulator seeks professional power, and use these techniques much more coolness. Women often use their sex appeal to promote themselves and reach the position they crave, and to deflect the hostility or ease tensions, if it suits them. Men who can flirt holding power to control or humiliate their subordinate or, if successful, to hide that are often difficult to treat.
Overall, the flirtation usually hide insecurities. The pathological flirty constantly need reassurance that they are attractive or popular. Those who are comfortable with their sexuality as much with his personality are more selective in their choices. However, the conquest achieved truly, whether compulsory or not, can make us feel beautiful and desired, if only for a brief moment ...
Joe M. Burchett
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